If you are not hot but personable, networking within the community can eventually get you play.
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Myself included I was sent a email saying I had too many Emails friends and favorite requests.
But a male submissive has to network relentlessly to get free play and/or find a relationship. To be completely honest, dommes are spoled and a male submissive with little money has little chance with them.
If you are a dominant the odds are less daunting, though still against you.
Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
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