Also, as you grow older, you'll develop other interests as well.So, sex, self-stimulation and masturbation will all be but a part of your well-round life. its normal to have thoughts about it, but its not a very good habit.
When i was like 13 I started to explore but only rubbing myself which was great at that time.
but then when i was like 15 i started to explore more and then i started using objects which stretched me inside.
I started dating somone when i was late 16 and i started to get bored with touching myself the same way.
it never came to anything great but then my bf showed me a different way to which i was doing it . and well first you rub yourself at the top of your clitoris (your lump) (moving round like circles) with one finger and start to get a little senstive stop when you feel a little sensitive and slide your fingers (one might be best to start with) inside you and then pall out and rub your clitoris again constently building up to come (if you can slide another inside you when do so it will make alot of differnce) and then when you are ready slide your fingers deep while rubbing yourself at the same time.
The more you rub and slide, the better the feeling you will have in the end.
I hope it made sense:) I'm deslixic so i suck at makin sense.its ok if you do masturbate, but the toys, wait till your older.i don't use them, and iv never had sex, (im only 13) and i dont masturbate.now i find caressing the clitoris really roughly works for me and i orgasm within minutes. Strip naked and stand in front of a mirror and admire your body.Then gradually start to feel everthing including your breats,vagina,inside of vagina,hips etc.Then once you find an aera you want to stimulate try diffrent combinations and keep going at it.