Nigerian men are crazy but that’s only because they love hard.
” Nigerian men are as different as they come but there are some characteristics that stand out, are constant and trail him wherever he goes. or watch-peddling in the Traffic, he works hard for his money.
HE IS HARDWORKING…Compared to his counterparts in Diaspora, the Nigerian man is a natural hustler. Not for him the queuing at the Giro office or sitting on the sidewalk, swigging from a bottle of booze, hollering at sistas.
How many a little girl have had to wash dishes and when asked if Junior can join her, have been told “No! ” How many a heart has been broken by those brown, twinkly eyes and wicked, dimpled grin?
The countless “I’m sorry, I’ll never do it again” to the “It wasn’t my fault, she tricked me…into getting her pregnant!
That the Nigerian man loves women can not be disputed. Not too many years ago, the winner of Miss Norway Beauty Contest was a half-caste with the distinctively Nigerian name of my forebears. Once he makes up his mind, he goes after her with a single-mindedness of a soldier on a special mission. Which brings me to the next characteristic…How many times have you my sisters, sworn that you were going to “brain” that boyfriend of yours when you catch him in yet another escapade, only for him to turn up with an innocent-looking face, weaving his fabricated story of how he tripped and fell on his Aunt who happened to be wearing red lipstick, so that’s how the mark got on his shirt! The only woman wey fit turn Urhobo man to flying boat! This leads to yet another characteristic…There is no denying it…Nigerian men are fine. Is it the “yellow” ones from the East or the Caramel ones from the West? Sure, there are some that are more “fearfully than wonderfully made” but generally our boys are fine!
When asked about her origins, she said her mother was Norwegian but unfortunately she had never met her father before. I’ve seen children that are half-Filipino and half-Nigerian! How he managed to convince the latter I will never know because Indians hardly ever marry outside their race! You know he’s lying and sweet-talking you but you allow yourself (after initially raking) to soften and smile at his smooth flattery and corny jokes. That his woman should know how to cook should not even be up for negotiation.
(Paying for the date.) They don’t like to feel belittled or not in control, and because of that some are very argumentative and aggressive to protect that Alpha male, macho man persona.5) The most sensual, sexual guy you will meet. An African man wants to pleasure his woman, and give her a good sexual experience; married or dating.
I don’t know what it’s like in the open public between you and your African man but I can almost guarantee it’s great behind closed doors, when you guys are… Nigerian men consider themselves great lovers, if only that were true but even though this might not be exactly true for all Nigerian men, they at least try and put that work in, if you know what I mean.
Recently, I was at a get together in Abuja for a group of African–Americans that had completed a project and were on their way back to the U. They were going on about how warm and hospitable the people were and the women among them (like true Americans!
) said they wouldn’t mind getting married to Nigerians and would like to be hooked up!
From the time he comes screaming from her into the world and all rejoice that “it’s a boy!