Everyone enjoys a little harmless flirting – but perhaps less so if you’re watching your new boyfriend flirting with the receptionist.
Though nothing may be going on, your insecurities of entering a new relationship may indeed give way to this green eyed monster. Spending too much time together It’s great that you can spend time with your heart’s desire – but sometimes you do just need a break.
It’s natural, however, to want to protect the one you love by not disciplining them as they should be.
They will be jealous that you received something they didn’t, and will blame anything other than themselves for it. This is due to the fact it’s quite natural to flirt in an office.
It’s actually quite productive too, so long as you keep it informal and non abusive/discriminative.
It also may kill a little of the romance, as you miss out on the excitement of waiting to see them at the end of the day.
If you see each other all the time with no breaks it can be hard to accept the little things they do that annoy you, and they just build up and up until something explodes.
By finding out more about the real person, and being attracted to this person, the relationship should last longer and be more secure than if the relationship had been built on the white lies of someone wishing to be more than they really are.
Also the fact you are working for the same company shows that you already have a strong bond between each other – with the added advantage to not having to explain your job to a possible mate and have their eyes glaze over when they find out you’re an accountant. Spend time with each other Obviously if a relationship is going to last a long time, you and your partner will need to spend a lot of time with each other.Married couples can see each other every day of their lives, with a very few breaks away from each other – and being able to do this is an essential part of a happy relationship.If you start to date someone you work with you will get the chance to spend a lot of time with them, and the chances are you had been spending this time with them prior to dating.Of course the fact you work together probably means that they are more suited and able to help you in your work than someone who you met out of the office.Of course, not everything about meeting your partner at work is good.Colleagues are often busy with their own thing and unwilling to assist, after all – it’s not their problem, it’s yours.