So why do I know so many beautiful unhappy and lonely women? To the rest of us, beautiful people are coasting on their looks, getting all sorts of stuff they didn’t have to work for.
It’s clear that like everyone else, she’s had her share of disappointments and douchebags, though I have a hard time imagining that she doesn’t get and keep whoever the hell she wants.
Conventional wisdom and research provide lots of evidence that good-looking people enjoy many advantages in life.
I wish I could meet someone who wanted to get to know me, someone who would get me.”In researching this question, I discovered that the question of why beautiful women are often perpetually unattached is a very popular one on dating and relationship forum sites, which cater to singles in their 20s and older.
A representative sample of male responses:“Most men are intimidated by good looks.
In New York, I’d been feisty and outspoken, confident in my smarts and my Irish looks.
When I got to LA I realized right away that things were not going to go so well for me there.
They were pretty much the only guys getting regular sex. In his 2008 book For guys, scoring sex becomes the most important goal on any given evening.
Therefore, it is important to maximize your chances for success by avoiding girls where the risk of rejection is high.
Believe me, guys remember, and not many of us were the quarterback.
Men also have problems with self confidence and when presented with a choice between a cute girl that we have a chance with and a pretty girl that seems like a long shot, we are going to play it safe and go with cute.
These tend to be men who are extremely good-looking and have a strong track record of hooking up with whomever they want.