Now, before you accuse me of being bitter, remember that I am a big fan of Star Trek. They need you to treat them like you hate them so that the few seconds a month you show them any actual affection/mercy, they feel they’ve earned something important. Women with options are insanely hostile and neglectful. The more you love them, the more “cruelly” you should treat them.
In some middle and upper middle class areas, this could be a new car.
In Israel, it’s something like that, but mostly around a specific event.
Short of getting a tattoo or other shedding of blood to prove his affections, the tsimmer is the measure.
His saying that you are his girlfriend or asking you to be his girlfriend or even to marry you means nothing.
If you don’t have a harem of at least two other bitches, you are a loser.
If you can’t actually bring yourself to shag other dudes, you should at least have them on standby. You can take out your frustrations about being occasionally neglected by your main guy on them, and they will just love you more for this.I should probably have known what was wrong with this place from the fact that people think Russians and Ukrainians are crazy.Indeed many of them cope with life here in ways that are very understandable, but sometimes very harmful or at least counterproductive. In this context, I would like to inform any civil women out there who are single and coming to this hell hole to turn back now unless they are willing to be callous enough to take the following advice… In the category of things I wish I knew 10 years ago, I have been informed that one is not actually in a relationship with an Israeli man until he has taken her to a romantic “tsimmer” and introduced you to his friends/family as his girlfriend.Whatever rotation or turnover you had when you met the guy should remain the same until he has actually taken you to the tsimmer and announced.It does not matter what he does aside of this or what he promises to do or if he promises that he loves you.In Israel, if he has bought you a car and paid your tuition, but hasn’t taken you to a tsimmer and nobody in his social group knows you are officially in a relationship, he is just some dude you are shagging.