This story also shows that sometimes people really don’t know a boy, and when you hear certain details, you need to take them with a grain of salt.If you go back to the basic principles of what makes a marriage work, and what traits should be important in a match, and all those things are lined up – it’s always worth giving it a date.


After the First Date After a first or second date, your reaction may be, “Wow, he was a really nice guy, but….” Think about the reasons you want to say no. Are they important enough to not give it another date?
Committing to a second date is not committing to a marriage; it is simply giving the shidduch time to play itself out. Did she become your best friend at your first encounter?
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The girl knew that this was not what she wanted in a personality and did not pursue the shidduch.
A year later, she saw a boy at a simcha – a lively, leibedik boy who really made an impression on her.
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