After all, not only is there the possibility of being swept off your feet by a romantic, loving man, there’s the chance of being swept over the cliff of heartbreak.Women reentering the dating scene after a long absence need to first examine if they are ready to date again.
I can totally understand why older men go for younger women.
There’s no denying that they’re, for the most part, in better shape, with better skin, and less baggage from broken relationships.
It’s a lot easier for a man to take out a carefree, responsibility free, baggage free, wrinkle free 28-year-old, which is why so many men try to go in that direction.
Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men.
But let’s not pretend that we, as a culture, don’t worship at the altar of youth.
Don’t get me wrong, there are advantages in a 45-year-old guy.
As teenagers and young adults, we are still experimenting with relationships and figuring out who we are.
They might find the qualities that they are looking for in an older man.
Are you dating an older fellow or thinking about dipping your toes into that more mature water? DON' T point out how "cute" his first grey chest hair is (OOPS). With age (often) comes maturity and chivalry—take advantage!
Well, my dears, you've come to the right place. Or, in Jess's (Zooey Deschanel's character, for those of you who aren't fans yet) case, don't ask about his health: "How's your prostate? Cece even tells Jess as she's first considering dating Russell (the one and only Fancypants) that "he intimidates you because you wouldn't have to take care of him, he'd take care of you."DON' T make your man feel older than he actually is (or date yourself).
DO treat the relationship the same as you would with a guy your own age.