Her/your religious views should not interfere with your relationship.
I know what it's like to want to try and fix this broken person, but it's not worth your patience and sanity. The Alcoholic is very different from the Jekyll-and-Hyde Drunk.
The Alcoholic is a person who usually keeps it together and rarely acts irrationally. His issues emerge when he’s sober, so he would rather just block that all out and numb anything that resembles feelings.
In the reality is that there are some categories of women you simply have to avoid.
Girls out there that will destroy your life, suck all your money away, turn your life into soap operas and dramas.
They will turn the smallest things in your relationship into huge fights and dramas. You are buying that new dress for her so she can be nice and pretty to you, if you buy that new expensive shampoo her hair will be perfect, of course for you. A good woman cares whether you have a job and a car, but a gold digger wants a man with an expensive latest model car, a high paying job and a house or two.
When things are cool, smooth, peaceful, she has to start some drama or will find a way to join someone’s else drama party. Dating a gold digger will cost you around .000 a month.
Once he gets comfortable, though, he allows himself to get drunk because he just wants to have fun like everyone else. Suddenly, this guy is spewing the most hateful, nastiest things you've ever heard. He becomes like a petulant child who you feel the need to babysit, and his behaviors become dangerous and erratic.
He gets into fights, throws things and refuses to listen to anyone.
They usually tend to end up in problems with police and the law. Run away from girls who try hard to get pregnant with your baby or beg you to marry them. If the next morning after sex a girl tries to get you to go to church with her or she mentions The Bible and God too much in a conversation, it’s a sign she is a little bit too much into that.
You will feel an urge to help them and sort their life out. Or she can’t have sex or hold hands with you because of her religion…
Some of these may seem very obvious, but even the smartest of women sometimes gloss over the red flags: When you first meet a guy like this, you feel so lucky to have found someone creative, interesting and smart.