Regardless of a girl’s personal preferences, there are some universal rules of dating that will help you land that second date, and maybe even a third.Read on to find out how to make your dating life a success.Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.
There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Discover The Exact Texts you need to get her texting back and on a date in our next article. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that.
Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.
Make sure you change the subject and once the joke is over, don’t keep going back to it if you’ve got nothing better to say.
It doesn’t matter how insanely fun you were when you met her because she’ll forget all those positive emotions as soon as you fail to maintain the vibe.
Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.
So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.
If you’re at the office and she texts you early afternoon, wait until you finish work. Love Panky talked more about picking the right time to text her here. It just ain’t cool and she won’t think you care about her if you don’t get back until the next day.
If you do reply to her one day later don’t be surprised if she doesn’t text back because you simply don’t deserve it. It’s ok to continue an ongoing joke you had going when you met her, but if you stick to the same joke for too long, it’ll get old.
After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…
Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!
If you gave her a nickname when you met her then that’s fine, but only use nicknames if it’s already an insider joke between the two of you, otherwise it’ll appear like you’ve totally forgotten her. Some guys will lose their mind staring at their phone waiting for her to reply, and when she does they’ll rush to pick it up and reply with something daft and incoherent.